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How to set boundaries with an emotionally immature parent
Setting boundaries with a parent who has borderline or narcissistic personality disorder feels impossible, but it's not. In less than an hour, I'll teach you my 3-step strategy for effectively setting boundaries with a parent who has borderline or narcissistic personality disorder.Â
If every interaction with your parent leaves you feeling anxious, guilty, or questioning, am I the problem?...
If you've spent years walking on eggshells, people-pleasing, or holding it all together just to survive—I want you to know:
You're not crazy.
You're not too sensitive.
And you’re not alone.

Hi. I'm Torie.
I'm a Therapist + Coach who grew up with a parent with an unmanaged Personality Disorder
When I say I completely understand what a sh*tshow of a relationship that can be, I really mean it. I grew up with a narcissist parent, and I've also spent a significant portion of my 12 year career as a therapist working with clients with personality disorders, their partners, and family members.
My goal is to empower you to make the best decisions for yourself by showing you how to start prioritizing your own needs. A less chaotic life is possible, and I'm committed to helping you find it.
LEARN MORE about TorieFor Cycle Breakers Who Are Done Walking on Eggshells
Find the support that you need when dealing with toxic parents
Whether you're ready for step-by-step tools, a supportive community, or more personalized guidance—you deserve help that meets you where you are. Explore options designed to help you break free from guilt, stop second-guessing yourself, and finally feel like you're in control of your life.

Coaching
Weekly 60-minute online coaching sessions allow us to dive into a plan for setting boundaries or going low or no-contact with a BPD or NPD parent that is customized to you. All coaching clients also get FREE access to the Confident Boundaries Online Community for additional support and encouragement in between coaching sessions. Let me help you make a plan to take back control of your life!
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Before Boundaries
What You Need to Know About emotionally immature Parents You suspect have npd or bpd
This pay-what-you-can mini-course gives you the essential knowledge you must have before you can set and hold healthy boundaries with a parent who may have borderline or narcissistic personality disorder. Learn the key features of these disorders that show up in parenting and make it so hard to set boundaries that stick.Â
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The Podcast
Listen to You're Not Crazy
Each episode, I unpack the layered, messy, and often painful experience of growing up with a parent who made you question your reality.
You're not too sensitive. You're not imagining it. And you're definitely not crazy. New episodes drop every Tuesday on all major podcast platforms.
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