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You’re Not Crazy. You're Dealing with a Toxic Parent.

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You’re not overreacting.

You're dealing with a toxic parent.

Join our growing community of cycle breakers learning how to protect their peace without losing their minds—or themselves.

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Setting Boundaries with a Parent You Suspect Has Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Setting boundaries with a parent who has borderline or narcissistic personality disorder feels impossible, but it's not. In less than an hour, I'll teach you my 3-step strategy for effectively setting boundaries with a parent who has borderline or narcissistic personality disorder. 

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I know you’ve tried. 

You say no to your parent—then wake up at 2am spiraling.
You speak up and voice your concerns—then wonder if you overreacted.
You try to hold your boundary—but their guilt, anger, or silence makes you feel like a villain.

It’s not that you haven’t tried hard enough. It’s that no one ever taught you how to protect your peace when the person harming you is...your parent.

Most people don't understand what it's like to grow up with a narcissist or otherwise toxic parent. They don't know what it feels like to desperately want a relationship with your parent and simultaneously recognize that relationship is breaking you.

That’s why I built the Confident Boundaries Membership—to give you real support that actually works in your kind of family. Start setting boundaries with toxic parents, now.

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You're not broken.

You've just been trained to think that you are.

You were taught to manage their emotions.
To anticipate the blowup.
To keep the peace, even when it broke you.

That's conditioning—not a personal flaw. And, I can't wait to help you break free from it.

I’m Torie Wiksell—a licensed therapist, boundaries coach, and someone who grew up with a narcissist mom. I built Confident Boundaries so you could stop surviving and finally start healing. I can't wait to help you catch your breath and find the light at the end of the tunnel.

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You're not broken.

You've just been trained to think that you are.

You were taught to manage their emotions.
To anticipate the blowup.
To keep the peace, even when it broke you.

That's conditioning—not a personal flaw. And, I can't wait to help you break free from it.

I’m Torie Wiksell—a licensed therapist, boundaries coach, and someone who grew up with a narcissist mom. I built Confident Boundaries so you could stop surviving and finally start healing. I can't wait to help you catch your breath and find the light at the end of the tunnel.

LEARN MORE ABOUT TORIE →

The support you wish you had Decades ago

Inside the Confident Boundaries Membership, you'll get:

  • Access to The Boundaries Helper GPT+ (your personal 24/7 AI coach-in-your-pocket)
  • A private chat community where everyone gets it because they're dealing with it too
  • Monthly live trainings hosted by Torie
  • A private member-only library of trainings, tools, and Q&As
  • Access to two group coaching calls each week led by Torie

This is where change stops being a concept you've read about—and starts being real. 

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You're Not Crazy-

But I’m guessing your toxic parent has worked hard to convince you that you are.
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My podcast, “You’re Not Crazy,” is where the chaos all starts to make sense. Every week I break down the emotional manipulation, double standards, and guilt cycles adult with toxic parents live in—so you can finally get some clarity.

I also share personal stories of growing up with a narcissist mom and how I work on being an emotionally healthy adult, mom, and therapist myself.

New episodes every Tuesday.

No BS. No toxic positivity. A little profanity. A lot of validation.

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Take your support system with you. 

Take your cycle breaking support system with you.

The Confident Boundaries App puts your healing in your pocket—literally. Whether you’re spiraling at 2am or just need a reminder that you’re not the problem, it’s all here.

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 The Confident Boundaries App puts your healing in your pocket—literally. Whether you’re walking into a phone call with your parent or need a reminder that you’re not the problem, it’s all here.

  • Pre-loaded with free resources to help you break the cycle

  • Grab the $1.99 Boundaries Starter Pack (exclusively available in the app)

  • Listen to the newest episode of You're Not Crazy for free each week

Download now on iOS or Android.